I so get it.
I hate being photographed, too.
I think it might contribute to my becoming a photographer so I could always have a giant lens blocking the view. So I am completely sympathetic when it comes to couples in love who would rather just be off smooching in a corner than be told to do so in front of a stranger's lens.
But Whitney and Todd are that rare example of a couple who are so at ease with each other that it translates to being naturals when it comes to having their picture taken. They were a dream to photograph, and I'm really looking forward to watching more of those sparks fly when they get hitched in January!